Sexual Frustrations

[dk8594]

Find a woman who is kind and thoughtful. The kind you are proud to introduce to your parents, a woman you can see being the mother of your children and who overlooks your imperfections.

You don't need to touch genitals to be intimate and your libido is something you can take care of yourself. Start asking yourself what's really important in a partner. If your top priority is a libido that matches yours then you're missing the point.

 

[DevilDoc87]

If you make her mind happy she will make your body happy.. my gf stays over all weekend and comes by during the week.. bj every morning and smash at least once a day.. sometimes 2-3

 

[Straight30weight]

Awful lot of generalizations in here. Everyone is different and everyone needs something different. You have to be with someone that matches you in every important way.

 

[motown1002]

It definitely works. Jenn's been sending me suggestive photos with google pin drops with her current location seemingly on the hour ever since she got juiced up again.

Damn you too? I thought I was special. ugh

 

[Gadawg]

Damn you too? I thought I was special. ugh

I did too but I think its just the hormones. Damn.....

 

[BrotherJ]

Everyone already hit the nail on the head but figured I'd chime in too - a lot of times people in a relationship (male or female) get hung up on "he/she won't *give* me sex" as if they are withholding something that you are entitled to. You're not - you have to earn it by being there for your partner, supporting them, doing things outside of sex that creates a happy, functional relationship. Otherwise, you'll just engage in the physical act of sex which you can also do on Tinder. Have an honest, tough, conversation with her lay out your emotions (in a nice way) and see what is the root source of this stuff. Could be she is going through something and not talking about it, or is lacking some intangible thing in the relationship. Otherwise, just sitting back and waiting for things to change is not going to work because you aren't actively doing anything on your side of the equation - it's not about what she could/should do better it's about what you need to do in order to improve. And say you improve and own up to whatever it is you gotta do, and she doesn't reciprocate? Well, that is then her problem and you know you did what you could.

 

[Gadawg]

My wife gets turned on watching me be a good father to my daughter.

Have you considered having a kid to fix this situation?

 

[German89]

My wife gets turned on watching me be a good father to my daughter.

Have you considered having a kid to fix this situation?

Lol.. do not suggest a child to fix a relationship!

 

[MrRippedZilla]

Woof this thread.

Hasn’t had hormones checked, she has been put on birth control which basically when she went on birth control is around the same time the sex significantly decreased. Already have used toys, amateur bondage and vibrator play and have tried ****ing while watching porn as well. She’s a freak when in the mood but it’s horrible because it’s like that part of her has dissapeared.

That is NOT a coincidence. Depending on the type of BC she's on, her test levels may have crashed up to 50%. It's the equivalent of me taking a normal dude and making him hypogonadal - his libido will go to shit too. I guarantee that if you dig deeper, you'll discover that she doesn't feel as good as she used to either.

I'd recommend opening her eyes a bit to how BC methods impact hormones, overall well being, etc and then looking into switching to another type. This may not always be possible - if it's an implant for example.

 

[DieYoungStrong]

Love and marriage, love and marriage...go together like a horse and carriage.

 

[snake]

my wife gets turned on watching me be a good father to my daughter.

Have you considered having a kid to fix this situation?

lol.. Do not suggest a child to fix a relationship!

​Oh hell no!

 

[silvereyes87]

Be a man and get it when she gives it, otherwise just jack off.

 

[RISE]

Get her off BC and see how she feels. Me and my fiance had troubles as well in this department. I felt the same way you did when i didnt get any. Not busting when on is like your head fills up with pressure and the only way to release it is through sex. I noticed this decreased when i uped my AI. I still had a high sex drive but with out going through the rage. We had been having this problem for about 5 yrs, along with some other issues and i eventually broke it off with her. We got back together under the conditions that we had a mutual agreement that at least 3 times a week was not too much to ask in the sex department and she promised to fix the other problems.

My advise, get bloodwork done. You may be able to higher your AI and lessen the cravings. Get her blood work done or come off BC. Have a mutual agreement on how many times a week is acceptable.

 

[jennerrator]

I'm so glad and lucky I have never dealt with this shit....I can't imagine having a written (or oral) schedule of when I was going to have sex..........................................

 

[snake]

I'm so glad and lucky I have never dealt with this shit....I can't imagine having a written (or oral) schedule of when I was going to have sex..........................................

Jenn said oral sex! :32 (17):

 

[jennerrator]

Jenn said oral sex! :32 (17):

lmao......oral schedule dear...you know how people take things.......................

 

[trodizzle]

I'm so glad and lucky I have never dealt with this shit....I can't imagine having a written (or oral) schedule of when I was going to have sex..........................................

Spontaneous sex is the best. Planning it or scheduling it sort of removes the passion IMHO.

 

[jennerrator]

Spontaneous sex is the best. Planning it or scheduling it sort of removes the passion IMHO.

Straight up and not an actual day of the week...but the fact that you have to do it 3 times...same fucckin thing!

 

[motown1002]

Let me look at my calendar and see when I am having sex next. hmmmm Wait, do I have to schedule oral sex too Jenn? :32 (17):

 

[jennerrator]

Let me look at my calendar and see when I am having sex next. hmmmm Wait, do I have to schedule oral sex too Jenn? :32 (17):

lmfao.....so blessed!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wonder if it’s my Type A personality??!!