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So there comes a time in a mans life where he finally gets the chance to fulfill one of his fantasies, a threesome with 2 women. I had a little chit chat with my gf for over a year now, and we got in the topic porn, and stumbled across the conversation. She said shes always wanted to try a threesome and have sex with another girl, which in my opinion is pretty hot.



Here is the sticky situation: I do like this girl a lot, and shes all for it, shes gonna ask one of her good friends who thinks im hot as shit, which is a plus, and shes not to bad her self. I just don't want the relationship to be wierd after that or effect it in any way, so i dont know if its a risk Since all my years of living ive never been put in this situation, i don't know if this is something you should do with a girl you really like, or just strictly for whores that you bang on the streets.

Chime in with your thoughts ladies and gents!
 

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I'm something of a prude so I say it's a lousy idea. It is incredibly damaging to the human psyche. Sex is what separates friends from being more than friends. It's the difference between roommates and a husband and wife. It should be special and should never be shared with a 3rd party.

Consenting adults will do as they will. But you will regret it. Jealousy is destructive to a relationship. Some things are best left to the imagination. Have some respect for the value of the gift of sex.
 

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POB is right, jealousy will KILL your relationship. I was put in the same situation on RR from my first deployment to Iraq with my ex-wife and her best friend around 3 yrs ago. Regardless of how strong we thought our relationship to be, it def wasnt. After the deed , the unthinkable happened. Her best friend caught feelings for me, I lost feelings for my wife, and the next yr was REALLY bad. She thought I was always cheating on her with her friend, when in fact my ex-wife was cheating on me, as soon as my boots left the ground back to Iraq. My friend, dont push the envelope. It could open Pandora's box, and next thing you know your in my shoes or worst.
 

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Threesomes are the best thing ever!!!! Unless it is with a chick you like/love. Not a good brick to throw into the foundation cause three years down the road she is gonna flip out and start asking you about "that night" and if you liked her better or if you still fantasize about her anymore... no offense ladies but save 3 somes for bar sluts. IMO
 

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Threesomes are the best thing ever!!!! Unless it is with a chick you like/love. Not a good brick to throw into the foundation cause three years down the road she is gonna flip out and start asking you about "that night" and if you liked her better or if you still fantasize about her anymore... no offense ladies but save 3 somes for bar sluts. IMO

I second that.^^^. Dont do it with a gf or someone u migh have a future with. When u least expect it it is going to be used against you. Woman cant let go of shit. She will never look at you the same, and the images are going to play over and over in her head.
Have you been trough a bad pct where the hormones play games with your head?? Well these creatures(woman) are on pct 24/7 if u know what i mean.

If you really want it man, go get a hoe. And if the of the hoes is a one legged milf midget... Bingo... You could drop dead and all your manly fantasies had been fullfilled.
 

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She said she wants to be with another woman so I suggest u get to it before she finds a guy willing to fulfill that fantasy for her....
 

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if you can keep things together go for it. if not.....well maybe its not the best idea. You know your lady....so your the only one whose going to know.
 

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i have had alot of them and 4somes too... anytime the girl actually cares about u it will end poorly but if its just a friendss thing game the fuck on man
 
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if you can keep things together go for it. if not.....well maybe its not the best idea. You know your lady....so your the only one whose going to know.

^^^ I like this satement right here. I will not talk about my experience on this cause is very personal and all 3 has make a promise of not to share any of this, so if you smart enuff you can figure it out!!!! My thing is if you guys are open mind enuff to trust each other on this and no lost trust and love for some good time go for it. If not like that the problem will be that one of you gona start get jelous about the other specially if like the other gilr sex. If your girl enjoy to watch you having sex with the other girl you fine if not your fuck!!! trust me on this one. So like Gymrat said only you know your girl and you know if you can go for it or not. Good luck bro.
 

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I've had 3 threesomes in my life. 2 with just chicks that were no strings attached type things and we just hooked up whenever. The last was with my ex and a stripper in Vegas. My ex wanted it but didn't want me to do anything with the other chick which was pointless to me. Either way I'd never have one with a chick I was in a relationship with or had feelings for. Causes way too much drama and I don't care if she says she's ok with it, if your showing the other girl too much attention or fucking her better or doing this or that different then you are with your lady there's gonna be problems. Even though it's awesome and strokes ur ego and everything, if this chick is anything more to you then just sex don't do it as gay as that sounds lol
 

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never a good idea with your girlfriend. will kill your relationship.
 
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never a good idea with your girlfriend. will kill your relationship.

Agreed, if you care about the girl and really want to partake in it all just watch them and only touch and have sex with the girl you care about.
 

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Well fella's, she backed out last night. Told me she had some time to think about it by her self, and she just couldn't amount to seeing me fuck another girl at all cause she felt way to strongly about me, and the thought of it got her pissed cause she would be extremely jealous(talk about change of mind). I honestly didn't mind,ill prob mind if we ever break up in the future and regret i didn't do it or convince her more, but there's always more fishes in the sea to do that with, and its nothing to lose sleep over, so that's no prob, im an optimist lol.

Thanks for the advice SI!
 

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Don't do it. It's a fucking trap. Man I fell for that shit with two different girl friends and there is no way to win. She will be cool with it in the beginning then that shit will get in her head and drive her crazy.
I'm not saying you shouldn't experience it; every man should. I'm saying don't do it with her.

I've tried it both was; tea bagging the other girl and only watching and banging my old lady. Both times the relationship ended as a result. I'm not saying it can't be done; I'm just saying if you really care about this one don't risk it.

My suggestion is to tell her your going out with your boys. Get a hotel room and get a couple of hookers and do that. Best $600 (or 100 on backpage) you'll ever spend.

But heed these words. Even if you don't fuck the other girl she is going to regret that shit and resent you forever. Fair warning bro.
 
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I wasn;t going to mention this little story but what the heck..

When I was 22 I was dating this wonderful and hot little lady and one day we were drunk and she called her friend over, apparently they did a little on the side playing before she met me.

10 minutes into it and the second this other chick mounted me the wonderful hot chick was grabbing her by the hair and kicking her etc, I had to break them up with a stiff one. We never spoke again after that day also

So I had blue balls and lost the hottie

careful!
 

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^^^^^^^^^ lol lol lol!!! Damn bro!! you should have just stroked it while they were fighting. Normally that shit has to fester for a bit but I guess your situation she was ready to go right now.
 
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I think the alcohol played a big part in it coming together and then falling apart so fast
 

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