Bobbyloads
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So 2 days in a row my kid comes up to me first 2 days ago he says "Hey Tata (polish for dad) god is not real" I asked who told him that? His mom SMFH
Yesterday were walking to the park starts asking me about my dad who passed last year then says "Tata heaven is not real" now my step daughter telling him that.
I am not saying I believe in religion, I do not. I was an alter boy went to Sunday school was even a teachers assistant in Sunday school until I got fired from the voluntary job for telling kids they do not need to go to church just because they believe in god. No I was not fondled by any priests lol
I believe in a higher power maybe you can call that God and I believe in energy or a soul you can call it and that energy goes somewhere when you die and that somewhere you can call heaven if you want. But what I do not believe is programming a 4 year old child into believing one way or the other I never push any of this on him and I tell him what I believe but also finish that with when you get older and learn and experience life more you will make your own decision. I stress to him not to believe everything he hears I know hes still young but that does need to be programmed in his head.
My wife is an Atheist or what ever the **** she is I do not know and that did not detour me from marrying her and having a child but I was not expecting her to push shit like this on children. This is a big deal for me because I need my child to be open minded and make his own decisions.
I really have no idea what is the truth, big bang theory ok well that's a energy/higher power but what made that happen? No idea but I will always ask questions but for damn sure there is something out there in my opinion and I will have my own thoughts and beliefs I built through out my life and I feel good about them but each person needs to have their own customized to fit them and I will be damned if my child has that taken from him, it's important to have so you can live your life by it.
Sorry had to vent.
Yesterday were walking to the park starts asking me about my dad who passed last year then says "Tata heaven is not real" now my step daughter telling him that.
I am not saying I believe in religion, I do not. I was an alter boy went to Sunday school was even a teachers assistant in Sunday school until I got fired from the voluntary job for telling kids they do not need to go to church just because they believe in god. No I was not fondled by any priests lol
I believe in a higher power maybe you can call that God and I believe in energy or a soul you can call it and that energy goes somewhere when you die and that somewhere you can call heaven if you want. But what I do not believe is programming a 4 year old child into believing one way or the other I never push any of this on him and I tell him what I believe but also finish that with when you get older and learn and experience life more you will make your own decision. I stress to him not to believe everything he hears I know hes still young but that does need to be programmed in his head.
My wife is an Atheist or what ever the **** she is I do not know and that did not detour me from marrying her and having a child but I was not expecting her to push shit like this on children. This is a big deal for me because I need my child to be open minded and make his own decisions.
I really have no idea what is the truth, big bang theory ok well that's a energy/higher power but what made that happen? No idea but I will always ask questions but for damn sure there is something out there in my opinion and I will have my own thoughts and beliefs I built through out my life and I feel good about them but each person needs to have their own customized to fit them and I will be damned if my child has that taken from him, it's important to have so you can live your life by it.
Sorry had to vent.
