Too Old to be Asking This

[John Ziegler]

So was my briggs & stratton joke lame

or did nobody get it ?

 

[Jin]

The anonymity helps, that’s why.

I need to vent. Even if it’s in isolation. Sorry Guys; I should stop.

I wasn’t judging. Just asking. The guys here have been helpful so far and you aren’t breaking any rules so.....

 

[stonetag]

So was my briggs & stratton joke lame

or did nobody get it ?

Wasn't sure I got it Zieg, brand of edger? Not even sure what edging is besides the obvious.

 

[John Ziegler]

Wasn't sure I got it Zieg, brand of edger? Not even sure what edging is besides the obvious.

Ok, edging means where the guy keeps beating off till hes just about to nut.

Then he stops for a bit till it cools off a couple seconds.

Then starts right back up again, riding that edge of just about to cum

 

[CohibaRobusto]

I can't believe I'm just seeing this thread, it's so right up my perverted alley.

Dude there is nothing at all wrong with you.

It's fine to not cum everytime you get a bj or even sex. I almost never come from bj's. I usually do from sex, but even sometimes I don't from sex, and it's no big deal. Just enjoy the experience.

If a girl is trying really hard to make me cum from a blowjob, I kinda feel bad for them when I can't. But I usually just tell them I don't cum that way and we're gonna have to ****, and that's how it works out.

If you and your girl aren't at that stage yet (sex) just enjoy whatever intimacy y'all have together and don't get hung up on orgasms yet.

Eventually you're gonna want to make her cum too, and that will probably be a mind**** also unfortunately.

 

[TeddyBear]

I can't believe I'm just seeing this thread, it's so right up my perverted alley.

Dude there is nothing at all wrong with you.

It's fine to not cum everytime you get a bj or even sex. I almost never come from bj's. I usually do from sex, but even sometimes I don't from sex, and it's no big deal. Just enjoy the experience.

If a girl is trying really hard to make me cum from a blowjob, I kinda feel bad for them when I can't. But I usually just tell them I don't cum that way and we're gonna have to ****, and that's how it works out.

If you and your girl aren't at that stage yet (sex) just enjoy whatever intimacy y'all have together and don't get hung up on orgasms yet.

Eventually you're gonna want to make her cum too, and that will probably be a mind**** also unfortunately.

thanks, I’m really trying to accept this.

We’re so nervous to try again, but I’m torn: should we simply enjoy a stress free night together with no performance of sex, or hop back in and aim for familiarity-not-fear.

 

[Trump]

Don’t plan anything have a night together without pressure and let nature take it’s course

thanks, I’m really trying to accept this.

We’re so nervous to try again, but I’m torn: should we simply enjoy a stress free night together with no performance of sex, or hop back in and aim for familiarity-not-fear.

 

[CohibaRobusto]

thanks, I’m really trying to accept this.

We’re so nervous to try again, but I’m torn: should we simply enjoy a stress free night together with no performance of sex, or hop back in and aim for familiarity-not-fear.

Do whatever y'all feel like doing at the time. Don't force anything or have some plan that you end up stressing about. Just enjoy each other's company.

You have the rest of your life to tweak your sex life. At 45, I'm still learning to be a better partner / lover. Learning about your sexuality is a process that will continue to evolve over time.

Check out my thread on polyamory in the red light section if you want to see how crazy it can get if you're a kinky slut LOL.

 

[HollyWoodCole]

Did I miss where someone talked about how difficult it can be to climax when you've been running a nandrolone such as npp?

 

[TeddyBear]

Did I miss where someone talked about how difficult it can be to climax when you've been running a nandrolone such as npp?

No, no one has said that.
Ive masterbated okay, but I’m wondering if that’s been part of it too.

 

[Jin]

No, no one has said that.
Ive masterbated okay, but I’m wondering if that’s been part of it too.

If you’re having issues climaxing with a partner I’d cease any solo time.

 

[BRICKS]

If you’re having issues climaxing with a partner I’d cease any solo time.

And therein lies the rub.......

 

[John Ziegler]

If you’re having issues climaxing with a partner I’d cease any solo time.

good idea, especially if youre spanking it to porno.

hard to get excited about bangin a chick on her back or a simple bj.

When you've been beatin off to tranny porn all day

 

[Jin]

good idea, especially if youre spanking it to porno.

hard to get excited about bangin a chick on her back or a simple bj.

When you've been beatin off to tranny porn all day

There are many practical reasons why watching porn isn’t good for your sex life, or for your outlook. None of them need be moralistic.

 

[TeddyBear]

We definitely panicked. We considered pushing back buying a house together.

My instinct was to retreat too, but I know myself. Retreating even one step will lead to more backpedaling.

So I doubled down, even without the courage.

i told her: if we can’t handle buying a house together, we shouldn’t send wedding invites either.

We hesitated and panicked some more.

When we saw each other again, just an hour later. It was awkward and strained a bit. But then we held to each other and committed to fighting this out together.

I will see a therapist. She will stick with me. Even through our wedding date, even if I’m not better, she will stay with me. We hope I’ll improve.

We sent in the check together today for the house. We order invites this week. I have her vote of confidence that I can overcome my intimacy issues.

I think I can get some good sleep for the first time in 5 days. I feel some peace.

we aren’t at 100%, we hit a hurdle; skinned our knees. But we’re running together again in the same direction.

Im glad to do it together.

 

[Jin]

We definitely panicked. We considered pushing back buying a house together.

My instinct was to retreat too, but I know myself. Retreating even one step will lead to more backpedaling.

So I doubled down, even without the courage.

i told her: if we can’t handle buying a house together, we shouldn’t send wedding invites either.

We hesitated and panicked some more.

When we saw each other again, just an hour later. It was awkward and strained a bit. But then we held to each other and committed to fighting this out together.

I will see a therapist. She will stick with me. Even through our wedding date, even if I’m not better, she will stay with me. We hope I’ll improve.

We sent in the check together today for the house. We order invites this week. I have her vote of confidence that I can overcome my intimacy issues.

I think I can get some good sleep for the first time in 5 days. I feel some peace.

we aren’t at 100%, we hit a hurdle; skinned our knees. But we’re running together again in the same direction.

Im glad to do it together.

You're being dramatic man. This is a bump in the road, not the end of the world. There’s nothing wrong with you: people have been successfully figuring out sex for millennia. maybe it takes time, so what?

Sex is only a part of marriage and is not the most important part (it is, however, important).

True sexual intimacy in the context of a marriage is not mainly a physical thing.

It can take years before the sex goes from ok to mind blowing. On the other hand, relationships that are based on sex have a weak foundation.

You both need to feel safe, loved and need to be able to be vulnerable with each other emotionally before you’re able to be vulnerable sexually.

If you love her and she loves you it will work out.

Our culture makes sex out to be the end all be all and THE dominant force in any romantic relationship. It’s not.

With the way you write about this I can only imagine how troubled your thoughts are. Anxiety and overthinking are your enemy in bed. Relax. If you need to get a small dose of bezos then do so.

You are really making this way too big of a deal. Stop obsessing over this and move ahead.

 

[Ped X]

Yeeeaaahhh bro, just relax and keep bangin away. Your nerves will eventually subside. Anxiety releases adrenaline which will also **** with your ability to bust.

 

[The Phoenix]

your fiancé is wondering if you’re into her?

I feel like OP’s account got hacked by an immature roommate.

Why are you having sex before marriage? Are you test driving before you buy, so to speak?

 

[JackDMegalomaniac]

We definitely panicked. We considered pushing back buying a house together.

My instinct was to retreat too, but I know myself. Retreating even one step will lead to more backpedaling.

So I doubled down, even without the courage.

i told her: if we can’t handle buying a house together, we shouldn’t send wedding invites either.

We hesitated and panicked some more.

When we saw each other again, just an hour later. It was awkward and strained a bit. But then we held to each other and committed to fighting this out together.

I will see a therapist. She will stick with me. Even through our wedding date, even if I’m not better, she will stay with me. We hope I’ll improve.

We sent in the check together today for the house. We order invites this week. I have her vote of confidence that I can overcome my intimacy issues.

I think I can get some good sleep for the first time in 5 days. I feel some peace.

we aren’t at 100%, we hit a hurdle; skinned our knees. But we’re running together again in the same direction.

Im glad to do it together.

I think seeing a therapist could really help in your instance. It may sound corny but alot of past experiences can influence your behavior in the present.
My brother was able to stay sober and off drugs after he received therapy in rehab.
Its okay bro, just don't think theres anything wrong with yourself. Its just a glitch in the system, you just need a update to fix it.

 

[HollyWoodCole]

You're being dramatic man. This is a bump in the road, not the end of the world. There’s nothing wrong with you: people have been successfully figuring out sex for millennia. maybe it takes time, so what?

Sex is only a part of marriage and is not the most important part (it is, however, important).

True sexual intimacy in the context of a marriage is not mainly a physical thing.

It can take years before the sex goes from ok to mind blowing. On the other hand, relationships that are based on sex have a weak foundation.

You both need to feel safe, loved and need to be able to be vulnerable with each other emotionally before you’re able to be vulnerable sexually.

If you love her and she loves you it will work out.

Our culture makes sex out to be the end all be all and THE dominant force in any romantic relationship. It’s not.

With the way you write about this I can only imagine how troubled your thoughts are. Anxiety and overthinking are your enemy in bed. Relax. If you need to get a small dose of bezos then do so.

You are really making this way too big of a deal. Stop obsessing over this and move ahead.

Most intelligent thing I've seen in awhile.

We all like to kid around, bash idiots, and get our zingers in on most threads but there is some true wisdom in this post.


Again, you've been on a nandrolone for weeks and have not recovered yet. You are more burdened by what you were taught as a young man than anything. Naughty is sexy, if you feel what you're doing is wrong it is another contributing factor to not being able to climax.

Also, we have to remind each other that any time around a cycle (to include recovery) is no time to be making life-altering decisions. From a hormone perspective you are someone else, and the 'normal you' may not appreciate the decisions you make.