Girlfriend stuck on my past with dating a pornstar.. but I love her!!!

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How do you convince your girlfriend that she is the one and hopefully she will just drop the past. We can all get insecure at times and all of us has been there. But I don’t know how many times I’ve told my girl that the girls from the past don't matter to who I have right now in my arms. She keeps comparing herself to a girl I dated who used to do porn and I’m not going to mention her name out of respect to her parents and her passing away last year bless her soul she was my best friend and was ultimately my soul mate but I did find the one now who I truly love and she can’t get passed the fact that I’ve dated a pornstar because that’s never gonna be her she says.

Also I’ve told her that I Wouldn’t want her to change her ways because I love her for her and i wouldn’t want it any other way. My ex was a little on the thin side.. and truth be told I’m a bit of a chubby chaser. But my girl right now is by no means chubby.. but she’s got nice curves and she’s got that hour glass shape. Her ass is amazing and it’s like I got the world in my hands when I grab both cheeks but the fact that she’s loyal, she’s only been with 6 men, and she’s devoted to me is really why she’s a keeper. But why do women think it’s men don’t look for those other qualities in women. I mean yeah we guys love a hot looking chick who can deep throat but damn women really think guys just care about looks and nothing else.

My girl now doesn’t know about how my past relationship wasn’t easy. I used to beat random dudes asses all because I’d be out to dinner with her and pervy dudes would come asking for her autograph and harassing her and interrupting our dinner and I’d end up in handcuffs because I would get into a scuffle with these dudes. Shit I remember one of them being strapped and my crazy ass grabs the gun and nearly misses on purpose but inches from blowin dudes brains all over the walls of that restaurant and thank God they still let me into that classy joint but it was embarrassing for me having to apologize to the owner for my actions.

More embarrassing for the dude I almost shot in the head because he shit his pants and ran out the door soon as I told him to **** off and leave the city. I think I even offered him $50 bucks so he can buy new pants but he ran quickly when I told his ass off. I’ve been told I shape shift and look demon possessed when I get pissed off but I can’t ever tell because I have such a baby face when not angry but when the switch goes off I see red and it escalates quick from there. But what would you guys tell your girl if she felt inadequate and had to compare herself to a pornstar. I mean I love my girl so damn much man she doesn’t even know. She is stuck in my past and she wasn’t even around to realize that my ex and I had ups and downs.. and with her it’s so easy because we are a lot alike so we hardly ever fight about anything and it’s nice to not have to argue with a woman for once lol especially one you’re dating hahaha I don’t know about you bros but damn women love to fight with me over some bullshit but this one I got right now is amazing.. I just don’t know what else I can say to make her feel secure
 
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I'd tell her love isn't a competition. Nothing you can do about the past.
 

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Couldnt read the whole thing, but from what I read, I think you need to re-evaluate some things. You date a porn star but get pissed off when she gets asked for an autograph? What do you think would happen in public? Seems a little far fetched to me, but..... if its a true story, you need to understand what comes with a professional like that.

Please dude, there are these things in writing called paragraphs, you might try incorporating them in your stories. You may get more readers. :)
 

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The paragraph police are coming!! I can’t even attempt to read that.
 

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Was a hard read but entertaining lol. She’s insecure my man. Probably intimidated by what she imagines your sex life was with this chic. If she’s the one be patients and figure out how to give her assurance.
 

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Telling your girlfriend that you used to date a pornstar is like having her tell you that her last boyfriend's dick was twice the size of yours.

Why on Earth would you tell her that? It's a complete setup for insecurity.

I get full disclosure and all, and I personally couldn't give a shit who my girl was with before me: she's with me, and that's what matters, but sometimes maybe holding some shit back would be good.

It's very difficult for insecure people to overcome their insecurities; it's even harder for us to help them do it.
 

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