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    "Apology"

    Jin brought it to my attention that I said some things that made others 'uncomfortable'.

    I am not apologizing for what I said. I stand behind my words. I'm sorry you're too much of a coward to tell it to me and instead ran to daddy to tattle.

    If this was Bundy or BSP that said these words, they would've been banned. It is only fair that I too take the same punishment.

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    I've always dealt with it person to person and only escalate if things were unable to be rectified in a civil matter. Hopefully you're not gone long little miss
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    "Apology"

    Originally Posted by German89 View Post
    Jin brought it to my attention that I said some things that made others 'uncomfortable'.

    I am not apologizing for what I said. I stand behind my words. I'm sorry you're too much of a coward to tell it to me and instead ran to daddy to tattle.

    If this was Bundy or BSP that said these words, they would've been banned. It is only fair that I too take the same punishment.

    I don't know when I'll be back this time.
    I don’t get bothered by what people say here. It’s unfortunate we have some sensitive men here that are flakey and come talk to you. They need to go to Rev. Courage or get off the gear & grow a pair. We don’t have a lot of females here and you tend to be the one to contribute most to discussions. It’s unfortunate some want to turn it into a Dick party.
    Last edited by The Phoenix; 03-28-2021 at 10:08 AM.

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    "Apology"

    Originally Posted by creekrat View Post
    I've always dealt with it person to person and only escalate if things were unable to be rectified in a civil matter. Hopefully you're not gone long little miss
    I can vouch for CR. He approached me to make amends when I was in the wrong or misunderstood.

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    Wasn't me either G, I take no offense to what people say here. Hurry back!
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    I've been reading pretty much everything German has posted lately, WTF did she day that was "offensive" or "uncomfortable"....both choices, by the way. Arimidex anyone???

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    I wasn’t really a big fan of the “ethnicities I wouldn’t date” “gross dad bods” and “foodies are fat people normalising overeating” comments but I kept it to myself. But some of those things do make me feel uncomfortable. Fatter people aren’t lesser beings.

    it wasn’t me. But some comments here are harsh. From everyone. Probably including me.

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    I didn't see anything offensive.

    I think people need to thicken their skin. People get miffed to easily these days.
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    Cancel culture at work here. People have a right to their opinions even if others are offended by them. As long as you weren't targeting an individual (saying names, trolling), I think it's free speech. Like it or not. I got a gross dad bod, it's why I'm here. My ex-wife won't date white guys anymore. Oh well. At least you aren't afraid to show who you are.

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    I don't know what what was said.. but who cares.. it's the internet, as is said thicken your skin and let it roll off your shoulder. It's not that serious, let's not become a forum full of sensitive pansies.
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    Originally Posted by BRICKS View Post
    I've been reading pretty much everything German has posted lately, WTF did she day that was "offensive" or "uncomfortable" . . .
    Doubt I read everything "live," but out of pure snoopiness I just found her recent posts through her profile and saw nothing unusual. Could the post(s) in question have been deleted, maybe?
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    German..If something was said and it wasn't meant in a hurtful manner..it may just have pushed a button..People go through and have to all to often deal with things..Right or Wrong..just sometimes doesn't apply

    In the short time I've known you here..never once did I get the empression your comments where hurtful..I would ask you to just take a step back like I did about a commercial I still hate..

    Don't let this ..take a special member of this forum from us..

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    Dont know what you said. Dont care. Dont leave. This is silly.

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    Originally Posted by ftf View Post
    Cancel culture at work here. People have a right to their opinions even if others are offended by them. As long as you weren't targeting an individual (saying names, trolling), I think it's free speech. Like it or not. I got a gross dad bod, it's why I'm here. My ex-wife won't date white guys anymore. Oh well. At least you aren't afraid to show who you are.
    although I agree people are overly sensitive Now, it’s easy to spew whatever venom you like under the guise of freedom of speech.

    sure you can say what you want. But don’t be surprised if people call you out on it. Because that’s freedom of speech too. It’s far easier to say whatever you want than it is to filter yourself just a little. Sometimes you can just keep your opinion to yourself. Which I have done many times here because I accept that other people don’t think the same as me.

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    You have a good point too. I suppose we have to keep it civil.


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    Originally Posted by ftf View Post
    You have a good point too. I suppose we have to keep it civil.
    you never know what will offend someone that’s part of the issue. You just have to think a little. Most people appreciate the effort.

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    This is ridiculous, you guys.

    Instead of looking at German I'd focus on the members who complained and whether it was simply their intention to instigate drama.

    Or let's turn it around, shall we - someone just didn't like that a woman dared to have an opinion that hurt someone's little ego and dared to say it out loud, because we sure as hell know a man saying this, mod or not, would not have been an issue.

    It is not German who should be silenced.
    Last edited by xyokoma; 03-28-2021 at 11:52 AM.
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