Shane as long as you are happy, do whats right for you. I dont know how fucked up your relationship was and how much your kid saw, but I will tell you this..........As a kid and really still to this day I would have rather seen my parents divorce than stay together. Its not always a bad thing for the kid. It sucks being mind fucked as a kid.
Sorry to hear this brother. It's sounds like you have the right attitude. Try and keep the shit out of your head and remember we are here for you.
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