Losing fat

[BrotherIron]

They correlate.

But love is a choice.

We all get old. Our looks will fade. Then what?

A non logical, crazy, wacky choice but yes a choice.

 

[gymrat827]

Well I'm a senior citizen so it's likely way different than a younger couple but at my age my love for my wife is more like any family member. I love her but I'm not 'in love' with her. It's more of a partnership now, and actually I guess it has been for quite some time. But to answer your question more specifically, no.... love and attraction do not necessarily correlate.

Now, yes

But back 20/30 yrs ago it was a totally different story??

Correct?


I like to compare it to how u stop having sex when u have kids...as u age the drive goes down, ur fee time disappears, your nights are more of glad boy n girl are sleeping n it just goes that way.

But if u both started as gym rats, u should try to keep up. I do, my wife has taken the hint and I babysit so she can workout often.

I don’t need a roommate who I share kids with quite yet, 25 more years later, probably no issue but I’m 36, she 35

So we got a while til we hit that point