what are the small things you did that had an impact on your life

[Solaszz]

for me, it was the micro-disciplined decisions. Such as doing my bed read at least 1 page a day. This helped me build confidence in my self to take on harder goals. And also when I get the urge to do anything, first I try to sit with the urge and delay it.

 

[Thrawn]

Work on Communication skills with wife.

 

[Bump]

Work on Communication skills with wife.

Pretend to listen while nodding your head, or is that just me?

 

[Thrawn]

Pretend to listen while nodding your head, or is that just me?

Communication doesn't mean I have to listen it gives me the opportunity to tell her she's talking too much as well

 

[Bump]

Communication doesn't mean I have to listen it gives me the opportunity to tell her she's talking too much as well

Let me know how telling her she's talking too much goes.

 

[Thrawn]

She did give me a black eye in 1997, I snapped my fingers and said woman!

 

[Diesel59]

Stay away from people who have a negative influence on me.

 

[andy]

texting - I always text between sets like Ronnie sayd

 

[Yano]

Realizing I am not special.

I am no better , smarter or stronger than any one else that has ever wanted to achieve the things I want.

I just have to out work them.

 

[DJ_Rockett]

That I am 100% responsible for my life. Choose once again. Choices is where my power is. 99% of the world is out of my reach to control. Learning that gave me the power, to choose.

 

[Thrawn]

for me, it was the micro-disciplined decisions. Such as doing my bed read at least 1 page a day. This helped me build confidence in my self to take on harder goals. And also when I get the urge to do anything, first I try to sit with the urge and delay it.

I wish I learned urge control alot younger.
That's great that you recognize the issue and are addressing it. What are some of your control techniques?

 

[Thrawn]

Stay away from people who have a negative influence on me.

Sometimes recognizing or admitting it can be extremely difficult

 

[snake]

Work on Communication skills with wife.

You're referring to her proper ass placement when taking it from behind right? lol

 

[Thrawn]

You're referring to her proper ass placement when taking it from behind right? lol

Yes, I mean got to pretend that that part of the bed is lava so you got to keep your pelvis off of it. Okay I probably shouldn't have sexualized a kids game. No fuck it there's naked twister so I'm good

 

[Solaszz]

I wish I learned urge control alot younger.
That's great that you recognize the issue and are addressing it. What are some of your control techniques?

so when i get the urge to do anything I sit with the feeling for as long as possible. Sometimes urges can be powerful so I sit with the feeling for a bit then give in. After a couple reps I m able to sometimes overcome the urge. Or when I get the urge to do something I breathe. Or i tell myself "its just a feeling" or " thank you mind".

 

[Solaszz]

I wish I learned urge control alot younger.
That's great that you recognize the issue and are addressing it. What are some of your control techniques?

Im interested to know, why did you wish learned urge control a lot younger?

 

[Thrawn]

Im interested to know, why did you wish learned urge control a lot younger?

Would have saved me from doing a lot of irresponsible and selfish shit, that in the moment I either didn't care or thought consequences would not happen to me.

 

[ghosteh]

My dad told me "Always go with the adventure in life" and I've tried to do that. So that "small thing" has been adopting a mindset. I picked an adventurous career, wasn't afraid of change or challenges, and picked adventurous hobbies and vacations. All those little choices have added up, and now I can see a huge contrast in the life I've led and those of most of the people I grew up with. I wouldn't change place with any of them!

 

[Solaszz]

My dad told me "Always go with the adventure in life" and I've tried to do that. So that "small thing" has been adopting a mindset. I picked an adventurous career, wasn't afraid of change or challenges, and picked adventurous hobbies and vacations. All those little choices have added up, and now I can see a huge contrast in the life I've led and those of most of the people I grew up with. I wouldn't change place with any of them!

totally agree

 

[DarksideSix]

When I stoped giving a F*ck about what other peoples opinions of me. Stopped trying to impress others and live up to others expectations and just did my thing.


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