Help DF get a date

[PillarofBalance]

Dood, just whip out the junk. Chicks love that shit.

 

[Curiosity]

Yeah, I'd have to say that she's interested. It'll depend on how it goes with this guy she's seeing now... it seems you don't know very much about her new relationship. It could be intense, it could be not that great and about to fizzle. If it was me, I would respect her wishes and give her that space she wants for her current relationship, but just say hi once in a while, nothing sleazy but let her know you're definitely interested. The outcome will depend on whats going on in her life with her current relationship.

 

[DF]

Dood, just whip out the junk. Chicks love that shit.

I always wanted to try the naked man pose.

 

[RowdyBrad]

If it hadn't been for the number, I would have thought let down. Seems like she wants you to hang around for a sec until she dumps the other guy. She is a good looking woman. Arms are looking a little small.....

Go kick his ass and show her who the alpha dog is. Just kidding, or am I!

 

[grind4it]

Damn bro, tuff break We call that move "the soft shoe" shes pretty hot.
With guns like you got, come on over to Texas. If you lower your standards...just a little. I can get a couple fat girls that will break you in half!

 

[DF]

Damn bro, tuff break We call that move "the soft shoe" shes pretty hot.
With guns like you got, come on over to Texas. If you lower your standards...just a little. I can get a couple fat girls that will break you in half!

Hey I'm not above fat chicks...just sayin. If I have enough beer they all look good.

 

[RowdyBrad]

 

[RowdyBrad]

Just go to the local buffet in a wifebeater that says I heart fat chicks. You'll line them up.

I say this as the resident fat guy.

 

[DF]

I'm glad I posted this you guys actually know some shit lol. I will message her from time to time & see what happens. I can tell you that I had a blast at that reunion. I had alot of women eyeballing me for sure. I had one pushing her tits into my back & arm while holding onto me.... if I wasn't so distracted by this one I would have popped a rod. Then I had another throwing golf fish crackers at me saying she wanted to get laid =O. Fun stuff these reunions

 

[DF]

WOW that'd be a whole lot of beer. lol

 

[Bullseye Forever]

She is absolutely NOT brushing him off IMO lets look at what she said

Hi Df It was nice to see you at the reunion. My cell is #^%$*. It's funny when you friended me on fb I looked at your profile and was hoping you were single. Someone recently asked me out and I would feel uncomfortable dating 2 people at once. I really would have loved to have gone on a date with you.

Key words to note, saw your profile and was hoping you were single!!

She is telling the truth and did start dating someone., can smell the class on that woman just from her pic!

DF play the friend role let the other mess up then swoop in for the win

I agree with EZ.....if she wasnt interested in you DF she wouldnt have given you her number and said "hoping you were single"

I think just wait,send her some messages every so often and i think she will come around

 

[Curiosity]

I'm glad I posted this you guys actually know some shit lol. I will message her from time to time & see what happens. I can tell you that I had a blast at that reunion. I had alot of women eyeballing me for sure. I had one pushing her tits into my back & arm while holding onto me.... if I wasn't so distracted by this one I would have popped a rod. Then I had another throwing golf fish crackers at me saying she wanted to get laid =O. Fun stuff these reunions

Yeah that's the right move. Don't spend too much time thinking about it, but maybe just check in and say hi once in a while... Could be next week, could be several months, but I bet you get your chance with her eventually. In the meantime, focus on other chicks you wanna get inside of. There are plenty of others out there.

 

[gymrat827]

I'm glad I posted this you guys actually know some shit lol. I will message her from time to time & see what happens. I can tell you that I had a blast at that reunion. I had alot of women eyeballing me for sure. I had one pushing her tits into my back & arm while holding onto me.... if I wasn't so distracted by this one I would have popped a rod. Then I had another throwing golf fish crackers at me saying she wanted to get laid =O. Fun stuff these reunions

well go get one of those during the mean time. at let you ll be entertained....lol

 

[DF]

well go get one of those during the mean time. at let you ll be entertained....lol

Lol, well I think both of those were married.

 

[MTgirl]

Probably IS better she's dating someone else if she's going through a divorce. Or is she actually divorced and it was just very recent???
IMO dating someone going through a divorce is messy business and I have personally never been one to want to start a relationship with someone who is still in the midst of ending and closing the door on another one. Too complicated, too much drama and I'd hate to see a nice guy like you get burned because she hadn't completed that chapter of her life and you were her emotional fall-out.
If the divorce was very recent I also agree with not being the rebound guy. No fun in that.
Give it some time. Give her some time. I feel her response was an honest one and she's trying to sort out relationship options.

 

[DF]

Probably IS better she's dating someone else if she's going through a divorce. Or is she actually divorced and it was just very recent???
IMO dating someone going through a divorce is messy business and I have personally never been one to want to start a relationship with someone who is still in the midst of ending and closing the door on another one. Too complicated, too much drama and I'd hate to see a nice guy like you get burned because she hadn't completed that chapter of her life and you were her emotional fall-out.
If the divorce was very recent I also agree with not being the rebound guy. No fun in that.
Give it some time. Give her some time. I feel her response was an honest one and she's trying to sort out relationship options.

Yes, I am counting on this other dude being the rebound guy.

 

[Lulu66]

Ok guys & gals. I need some advice on how to proceed. I did get some good advice in the chat box, but wanted to open it up a bit & get more opinions.

Here's the deal. I had my 25th high school reunion last weekend. I was hoping that something would happen with this former class mate of mine after friending her on fb awhile back. She looks damn good. We talked most of the evening after her best friend came up to me & asked if I was single. So, we hit it off really well.

After the reunion was over I had her & a few friends back to my place. We talked more ect... & dumb ass me with no alcohol at my place.....Doh!

Anyway she & her friend needed to get going. I walked her to her car & asked her out. She said yes & would text me her number. A couple days go by & she sends me a message on FB.

This is what she sent:
Hi Df It was nice to see you at the reunion. My cell is #^%$*. It's funny when you friended me on fb I looked at your profile and was hoping you were single. Someone recently asked me out and I would feel uncomfortable dating 2 people at once. I really would have loved to have gone on a date with you. Ill let you know if it does not work out . Take care Lisa

So, I sent this response:
Hello Lisa. I had a great time at the reunion. I was thinking the same thing when I saw your fb profile, lol. I must say that you are even more beautiful now than back in high school. Speaking with you was definitely a high light of my evening. I believe that you are a very special person. I'd love the opportunity get to know you better. However, I understand your feelings and I respect your decision. I do remain hopeful that we do get to go on a date. We'd make a great couple =). I'd like to be able to contact you on fb or text if that is ok. Just to keep in touch.

This is what I received back:
Thank you Df for the compliment.. You are quite handsome yourself! I wish we met a few weeks ago. Yes you can still contact me if you want. Yes I bet we would make a great couple too Hope all is well. The reunion was fun. It looked like everyone had a blast.

Just so we all know what we are talking about here is her pic. That is my arm on her right side.

Alright Guys & Gals time to help a brother out. Lets see what you got for me.

It was all well till u mentioned the "couple" part. U went for the kill a bit too fast imo i would keep in contact, but dont wait around.

 

[DF]

Ah that was just a joke. Note the =) damn hope she didn't read it like that.

 

[Jada]

Hey df I think u msg back and forth would be good since u like her just hit her up , u have nothing to lose plus just keep searching for the right one.

 

[Hurt]

Yeah the couple part may have been a bit much bro but I KNOW she is DEFINITELY interested in you. If you were dating a girl, and she told another guy she wished she had met him before you, and gave him her number you'd be PISSED. And why? Because it's obvious she's interested in him!

The next step is a tough call though, steal her away or let her stay with that other guy for god knows how long. If she stays with him too long she could develop feelings for him...I say you keep pursuing...but leave out the couple talk! Just tell her you'd love to grab a drink and catch up sometime.

She def, def, def is interested man...VERY clear signals there.