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Alright guys I got a question..something thats been on my mind for years...
Lets say you get married to a great woman that you know will never cheat on you...you know so well that the thought never even enters your mind. So as the years pass you accumulate lots of nice things..big house expensive neighbor hood...high society reputation...expensive vehicles...all the things you want so when you think you want to buy something you cant cause there is nothing left to buy.
As time goes by the intimacy, passion, attractiveness, and affection begins to fizzle to the point where you just love eachother but now act like roommates going through the daily motions....then along comes a baby...still the connection between you and her is non existant. She never complains about it though and says she is happy when you ask her if she is happy. You always catch yourself dreaming of what it would be like with another woman...
After all this would you guys stay and try and work things out between you two and keep your upscale life and coming home to your kid everyday or would you leave her to take a chance to find whats missing in another woman and lose your home and deal with all the splitting up of your shit and only get to see your kid with 50/50 custody and miss some of thier growing up cause your only there half the time??? (lets not forget that she will find another guy that will try to be your kids dad when your not there). Is it legitimate to want or need that spark in a relationship or is it all a part of being married and thats just how its suppose to be?
Lets say you get married to a great woman that you know will never cheat on you...you know so well that the thought never even enters your mind. So as the years pass you accumulate lots of nice things..big house expensive neighbor hood...high society reputation...expensive vehicles...all the things you want so when you think you want to buy something you cant cause there is nothing left to buy.
As time goes by the intimacy, passion, attractiveness, and affection begins to fizzle to the point where you just love eachother but now act like roommates going through the daily motions....then along comes a baby...still the connection between you and her is non existant. She never complains about it though and says she is happy when you ask her if she is happy. You always catch yourself dreaming of what it would be like with another woman...
After all this would you guys stay and try and work things out between you two and keep your upscale life and coming home to your kid everyday or would you leave her to take a chance to find whats missing in another woman and lose your home and deal with all the splitting up of your shit and only get to see your kid with 50/50 custody and miss some of thier growing up cause your only there half the time??? (lets not forget that she will find another guy that will try to be your kids dad when your not there). Is it legitimate to want or need that spark in a relationship or is it all a part of being married and thats just how its suppose to be?