Sexual Frustrations

[DarthMaanz]

Me and my girlfriend have much different sex drives, mine is through the roof and hers not so much. When we first got together she wanted it just as much as I did but over time this has changed and is no longer the case. At times it’s seriously gotten to the point where I consider leaving her or cheating, my sex drive gets so high and I feel so frustrated that for some reason I literally get angry as f*** and feel like ripping someone’s head off until I get that nut out of my system. Should I just take her even when she doesn’t want it or what? I’m sure others here have been in my situation and would just like to hear how you deal with the super high sex drive.

 

[Gadawg]

Umm.... no..... do not rape her.

For most women, sex is in the head more than the pants. It starts for my wife way before bed time.

 

[DarthMaanz]

Umm.... no..... do not rape her.

For most women, sex is in the head more than the pants. It starts for my wife way before bed time.

me and my partner have already talked about this in that I wouldn’t be raping her as she wouldn’t be telling me no but if I’m in the mood to just simply take her even though she’s not in the mood. I don’t feel that that is positive for a relationship though and don’t necessarily like the idea, I would rather have it where we both want each other but as stated I want it way more than her and emotionally/mentally get more mean and agressive when I don’t have it often.

 

[Straight30weight]

Just taking her is a bad idea. It's 2018 man.

I'll just be honest, anytime the person I've been with had a drive that didn't match mine, I cheated. Not saying you should, cuz nobody should. I'm just saying that unfortunately that's always been my MO.

 

[Gadawg]

I think this is probably true of most relationships. Id like to phuck my wife twice a day but we have a three year old and two demanding jobs. Just isnt going to happen. I find it frustrating too and probably become more of a dick when the advance is rejected but really try not to. Our sex life is way better than most though so I try to keep that in perspective.

Most 35 year olds dont have the libido of a teenager so I act like a teenager and jerk off daily. It's not ideal but what is?

 

[Straight30weight]

I think this is probably true of most relationships. Id like to phuck my wife twice a day but we have a three year old and two demanding jobs. Just isnt going to happen. I find it frustrating too and probably become more of a dick when the advance is rejected but really try not to. Our sex life is way better than most though so I try to keep that in perspective.

Most 35 year olds dont have the libido of a teenager so I act like a teenager and jerk off daily. It's not ideal but what is?

I believe this is true. We average about 4 days a week. Not what I want but I try to be cool about it. Used be every day, on average. But same thing, 5 year old, 16 year old, jobs, stress, blah blah and my old lady is out by 9pm. Meanwhile I'm up til 1am. You just do what yah gotta do.

 

[motown1002]

Its already been said once but I think it could be repeated. Sex with women for the most part, starts with the brain. (emotional) Sure every once in a while it may be different but..... for the most part it starts in the brain. If all you want is just sex you might as well take care of yourself. As far a relationships, its a give and take. You understand her needs and she understands yours. (if you are wanting a relationship) If you want to rip someones head off because you aren't getting laid, you may need to re-evaluate your gear if your on any. That's not healthy. Not sure what you mean by sex drive being so different.. you want it multiple times a day and she wants 3 times a week, or 3 times a month? If its the later, maybe there is something else going on. Stress.... or fighting or worse...

That's just years of experience talking.

 

[PillarofBalance]

Have you tried to PIITB?

If that doesnt work I would recommend a side piece.

 

[DarthMaanz]

Its already been said once but I think it could be repeated. Sex with women for the most part, starts with the brain. (emotional) Sure every once in a while it may be different but..... for the most part it starts in the brain. If all you want is just sex you might as well take care of yourself. As far a relationships, its a give and take. You understand her needs and she understands yours. (if you are wanting a relationship) If you want to rip someones head off because you aren't getting laid, you may need to re-evaluate your gear if your on any. That's not healthy. Not sure what you mean by sex drive being so different.. you want it multiple times a day and she wants 3 times a week, or 3 times a month? If its the later, maybe there is something else going on. Stress.... or fighting or worse...

That's just years of experience talking.

i agree it is more about emotions for women. Although it’s about emotions for me as well I just am very emotionally horny lmao. I don’t take any gear, I think just because I’m younger and eat super healthy and workout as well as take a shit load of libido/test boosting supplements for the gym that my shits through the roof, while she doesn’t work out or eat healthy, sleep well etc. she doesn’t live the same lifestyle as me which is perfectly fine lol. And I need to ejaculuate in one form or another at least 3-4 times a week or else I find myself being more aggressive, thoughts of cheating etc. her on the other hand is in the mood very rarely now whereas she used to be the one to initiate sex daily now I am almost always the initiator and she only is down to even meet my needs 1-2x a week and that’s just not enough for my needs and wants in a relationship frankly. More than anything I hate it because I go throughout the day being hit on by women and I feel the want and then I go home and want to have sex with my girl and she’s not even interested and I get very angry, the shit sucks.

 

[DarthMaanz]

Have you tried to PIITB?

If that doesnt work I would recommend a side piece.

Ive tried to put it in her butt but quite frankly she won’t let me, she’s terrified. One time I did it anyways in the middle of sex I just shoved it in and instantly she was screaming at me to stop and of course I did and was crying for like 15 minutes saying how bad that hurt and that she was going to throw up and pass out lmao. I’ve told her we can try it with lube etc but she’s scared of anal although I personally love it, I’ve done it with ex and it’s the best hole lmao. My current gf will let me eat her ass but not **** it which is bull shit if you ask me, I also understand a little bit because my piece is a bit bigger than average but damn she needs to just get over it if you ask me lol

 

[Chillinlow]

Has she had her hormones checked out? Is she open to seeing a doctor? Lots of stuff could be going on. Spice it ger her some toys, bust out the porn etc.

 

[DarthMaanz]

Has she had her hormones checked out? Is she open to seeing a doctor? Lots of stuff could be going on. Spice it ger her some toys, bust out the porn etc.

Hasn’t had hormones checked, she has been put on birth control which basically when she went on birth control is around the same time the sex significantly decreased. Already have used toys, amateur bondage and vibrator play and have tried ****ing while watching porn as well. She’s a freak when in the mood but it’s horrible because it’s like that part of her has dissapeared.

 

[jennerrator]

Jesus Murphy..................................................................................................................................

 

[Chillinlow]

Hasn’t had hormones checked, she has been put on birth control which basically when she went on birth control is around the same time the sex significantly decreased. Already have used toys, amateur bondage and vibrator play and have tried ****ing while watching porn as well. She’s a freak when in the mood but it’s horrible because it’s like that part of her has dissapeared.

If you have insurance have her get a annul physical and have her ask them to check her hormone levels as well, it should be free. Also That birth control fuks them up have her try a different kind. Might take a few tries to find the right one but I bet it’ll help.

 

[Gibsonator]

i hear what ur sayin, sounds no bueno. I also have an extremely high sex drive and require a woman that can match it, close enough. Some women are just not as interested in sex as us, of course it's always jack rabbit season in the beginning but after that settles down you see how she really is. And no about just taking her, fukk all that, its no fun to have sex when the other person isn't into it. Keep ur pity fuk.
Being jacked helps, having women stare at you constantly in front of your woman helps, lol. Does she lift? Var will get her horny as shit..
Anyways good luck man, my advice is if u truly love her, get used to baitin or get out now and find a more compatible chick.

 

[DarthMaanz]

Thanks everyone for the input and advice. I’m thinking I’ll give it awhile longer and if things don’t change then sadly I’ll just have to leave this girl cause I couldn’t imagine living the rest of my life like this. And I plan on hopping on gear in the future so I know once that happens it’ll only get even worse. I just hope things get fixed and I don’t have to take that path because I do care about this girl.

 

[Gibsonator]

Thanks everyone for the input and advice. I’m thinking I’ll give it awhile longer and if things don’t change then sadly I’ll just have to leave this girl cause I couldn’t imagine living the rest of my life like this. And I plan on hopping on gear in the future so I know once that happens it’ll only get even worse. I just hope things get fixed and I don’t have to take that path because I do care about this girl.

good plan, and yes it'll get much worse lol

 

[Spongy]

just jerk off like a normal human being.

 

[Viduus]

Thanks everyone for the input and advice. I’m thinking I’ll give it awhile longer and if things don’t change then sadly I’ll just have to leave this girl cause I couldn’t imagine living the rest of my life like this. And I plan on hopping on gear in the future so I know once that happens it’ll only get even worse. I just hope things get fixed and I don’t have to take that path because I do care about this girl.

Marriage makes it even worse. When you get to the point, leave her or ask if she’s ok with an open relationship. Not much to lose...

 

[Gadawg]

Try showing her that towel picture of Hurt. That seems to rile up our gaggle of hens pretty good.