What's with all the cucks these days?

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Y'all are taking this shit in a very odd way. I asked a question, and folks are losing their damn minds about it.
I think people have been very patient and understanding with you in this thread.

I've stayed out of it because my patience tends to run short with condescending people that think they're better than everyone else because their moral standards are higher.

You're projecting your insecurities onto a class of people in the same way that pedophiles project their perverse desires onto drag queens while protecting the clergy who molest under the protection of the catholic church.

Types of cucks:
1) Men who don't cheat, staying with women who they let cheat.

How does this affect you? Who are you to think you are better at making other people's life choices for them?

2) Men who cheat that let their women cheat (open relationships).

Again, why do you think your relationship style is any better than anyone else's? If people are happy in these types of relationships, leave them the fuck alone and don't post judgmental bullshit about them on the internet.

*3) Men raising a child that isn't theirs (subjective, parotted by some but not everyone will agree with this).

Raising a step-child is a noble thing to do. When someone dedicates their life to helping another, what more altruistic act of love is there in this world?

*4) Men who led their fuck buddies sleep with other dudes (not sure I agree with this, but I guess it's quasi-cuckery).
*5) Cuck Queens - women who enjoy letting/watching their man cheat. Personally, I don't think this even fits here, but I'll add it.

Do dudes really not see that letting their woman sleep with another man is literally playing into their dual mating strategy (fucking the dude with good genes | letting the dude without good genes raise the other dude's child (AKA Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks))?

Not sure if this discussion will gain any traction here, but you can't even pull up pornhub without seeing 20+% of the videos showing some form of cuckery. This shit is even in mainstream music... "I don't wanna know" - Mario Winnans (previously sang by P-Diddy I believe(?)).

So, what in the hell is going on with dudes letting their women get railed by dudes she wants to fuck more than their main man?

All the rest of your babble is just judging people for their kinks. Maybe spend more time looking at your own life and what you can do better, than what's wrong with all these other people in society that are living their lives their own way, not hurting anyone. And in the case of step-parents, they're doing society a great service.

To all the step dads out there, thank you. Please ignore this asshole's drivel.
 

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Y'all are taking this shit in a very odd way. I asked a question, and folks are losing their damn minds about it.

I didn't accuse or virtue signal or anything. I asked because it's oddly reminiscent of societal trends of disenfranchised young men. Maybe it's still not prevalent at all, and I hope that's true. Or at least, if dudes are cool with it or enjoy it - then more power to them.

What I'm curious about is if our gynocentric society has gone so far that it's convincing (or berating) men into letting women run all over them as the norm. I couldn't think of a better example of this than Will Smith and Jada Pinkett.


Maybe I'm just the crazy dude for caring about the futures of young men and what is societally normalized for them. I hope getting unhappily cucked isn't one of those things that's being normalized.
I really don't think it is.

But even if was, how would it it effect you?
 
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And in the case of step-parents, they're doing society a great service.

To all the step dads out there, thank you.
I agree entirely with this. After re-reading my comments, I probably should have made that more clear. I don't think step dads are cucks or 'beta'; I was putting this opinion (that I've heard from others) out there for scope/definition and its done nothing but detract from what I wanted to discuss. That is my mistake, I own it.

I think being a stand in father figure is an extremely noble thing to do. It's actually something I want to commit time to when my life is more stable.
But I wouldn't want to be a step father.

You can judge me for saying that last part if you like, but it's nothing more than personal preference.
 
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I agree entirely with this. After re-reading my comments, I probably should have made that more clear. I don't think step dads are cucks or 'beta'; I was putting this opinion (that I've heard from others) out there for scope/definition and its done nothing but detract from what I wanted to discuss. That is my mistake, I own it.

I think being a stand in father figure is an extremely noble thing to do. It's actually something I want to commit time to when my life is more stable.
But I wouldn't want to be a step father.

You can judge me for saying that last part if you like, but it's nothing more than personal preference.
I've never lost respect so fast for a UGBB member as I did you when I read this thread you started.

I hope you can listen to what some of the people here said and make it a learning experience.
 
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So you're afraid of your son becoming a cuck?
I think any father would be afraid of that hypothetical, yes.

I would also raise him to not put up with that shit. My concern is moreso if that becomes societal norm, and my son(s) are of the few who won't put up with it.
 

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I think any father would be afraid of that hypothetical, yes.

I would also raise him to not put up with that shit. My concern is moreso if that becomes societal norm, and my son(s) are of the few who won't put up with it.
If you honestly think that some malevolent gynocentric force is gonna turn even a fraction of the young male population into braindead cucks in the span of a single generation then I've got something else to clue you into:





Jet fuel can't melt steel beams.
 
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I've never lost respect so fast for a UGBB member as I did you when I read this thread you started.
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My only hard stance in this thread has been that dudes getting cucked is bad. If that's what did it for you, then it is what it is.
 
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Look, it sounds like you're a pretty devoted and present father.

Have faith in that and stop fixating on wild postulations about the society that your son might inherit. That shit will drive you insane and likely impede your ability to be a level-headed caregiver.
 
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It does if everyone did it.

Assuming we have all the same, or close enough, morals right?
That is a very strong assumption to have these days, friend. There are doctors who've sworn to do no harm, and they're transgendering kids that aren't old enough to drive.

I think morality is painfully and politically fluid, particularly these days.
 
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I'm going to call it here boys. I don't think anything meaningful is happening from here.

I was hoping to start a dialog to understand, most comments aren't about that and probably won't be going forward.

@CohibaRobusto maybe you should stop worrying about what's happening in other people's bedroom? I kid.

My dick never worked in the first place.
 

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